Winston's Work

Imagine experiencing life through the eyes of an eleven-year-old! You’d see the well-educated, well-adjusted, affluent European dignitaries and foreigners who served as boundary commissioners and chief secretaries in my homeland. These individuals who temporarily resided in my country around the late fifties; didnt just visit, they embodied self-sufficiency, integrity, and fairness, qualities that are truly admirable, so much so one could feel the energy they embodied. Their way of living reflected a life of comfort, fairness and equality, something we could all aspire to. How would you feel if such a standard was our norm? Isn’t it fascinating to think about how this perspective could shape our understanding of life around the world? I’d love to hear your thoughts! What values do you believe should be prioritized in our society?

I cannot overstate the significance of cultivating a healthy outlook on life, particularly when faced with adversities. In my earlier years, the specter of poverty loomed over me, often appearing to be an unrelenting force that threatened to overshadow my formative experiences. 

However, it is imperative to acknowledge that this challenging environment could have left an indelible mark on my psyche, permanently altering my perception of joy and fulfillment. Fortunately, I was fortunate enough to be encompassed by a nurturing and supportive upbringing that compensated for these hardships. 

My family instilled within me an innate sense of resilience, consistently showering me with love and encouragement, thereby fostering an atmosphere conducive to personal growth. The presence of joy and a spirit of playfulness within this environment not only provided a refuge but also fortified my emotional well-being. This combination of support and positivity ultimately empowered me to transcend my circumstances, allowing me to approach life with hope and optimism, despite the challenges I encountered. A healthy perspective has proved invaluable, guiding me toward personal fulfillment and a sense of purpose.

Discrimination and prejudice have woven their way into our everyday lives, which I believe originated from  lack of the understanding which is found in the essential stories featured in my books.

Have you ever noticed how discrimination and prejudice seem to sneak into our daily lives? It’s all too common, isn’t it? I truly believe that this happens because we miss the deeper understanding found in the essential stories I share in my books. What stories have shaped your views? Let’s talk about it! 

These narratives provide insightful examples of often-missed human interactions and behaviors, which can undermine self-confidence and inadvertently harm those who are most vulnerable. At the same time, they offer viable solutions to the societal issues we tend to overlook. 

What stories have shaped your views? Let’s talk about it!

I invite you to take a look.

But before my views are seen as harsh or unfounded, I want to clarify that my goal is simply to protest damaging behavior that contributes to the violence and sorrow we witness in our today's world.

Additionally I'd like to add that, during my walk in life, I had insightful experiences in which I observed many of my own(old) behavioral patterns reflected in the actions and reactions of others. 

This observation prompted me to engage in a critical self-reflection and incited a compelling desire for personal transformation. So it just goes to show change is possible after all, if we so desire. 

However, rather than succumbing to the temptation of retaliatory behavior, which might descend into violence or aggression, I have come to believe that rising above such displays, and the practice of restraint is far more beneficial. 

By exemplifying patience and understanding, I wish to embrace a more constructive approach, thereby modeling positive behavior for others to emulate. 

As for the haters, this strategy is not to create panic or point fingers, but rather this strategy of extending an olive branch even when accountability is warranted, has the potential to alleviate not only personal conflict but also to diminish the broader social strain characterized by insecurity and anxiety.

I would imagine that sometimes, it doesn't take long before all writers occasionally harbor the hope and expectation that their readers will not only engage with the text but also grasp the underlying subject, concepts and themes that are intricately woven into their work. 

As a poet (of sorts), I am particularly invested in this process, for poetry has the unique ability to evoke emotions and provoke thought, often In ways that may be subtle or nuanced. 

It is my sincere aspiration that the readers of my (uncommon) poetry do not overlook the core messages embedded within the verses.

The delicate interplay of language, imagery, and rhythm in my poems serves to convey my thoughts and feelings, which I endeavor to articulate as clearly as possible.

I strive to create a connection with my audience, allowing them to immerse themselves in the rich tapestry of meaning that my poems offer.

Therefore, I encourage readers to approach my work with an open mind and a receptive heart, ensuring that the essence of my intention is not lost in translation. 

and incited a compelling desire for personal transformation.

Don't you think it's tough that we endure constant struggles? I've been there, and I’ve shared what I've learned along the way. Let’s dive into this together! so please drop a comment below!

Dear readers, in both my life, and my writing, my ultimate goal is to engage and inspire society's conscience. But as everyone knows, as everything else in life, learning also takes time.

Nightly, I go to bed laughing at the day's performance, nostalgic about a period in my life that sincerity seemed more prevalent. Conscious, that life’s not at fault, but us, for being human. As a child, despite living among hardship and poverty, I experiened nothing short of pure and unadulterated love, given to me by my dear loving mom Philomena. Today it's comforting to know she cared, and was supportive of me, and tried to help me feel better, even when she may not have known what was causing my distress. Leading up to her final moments, her actions demonstrated the kind of person she was- someone who showed empathy, kindness and love toward others. This is a valuable legacy that she has left behind for me, a quality that I can carry with me throughout my life.

Growing up, I always found joy in the simple things in life, especially those that connect me to my childhood, and so have always played each day to my heart’s delight, daydreaming the rest of the way, and so, really got acquainted with my childhood.

And now, dear readers, loved ones and well-wishers, I thank you all for the genuine smiles you've bestowed upon me throughout the years. I remember when and where I grew up and left home pennyless for the world abroad, thinking I had to do something with my life while I was doing nothing, and now, when for the first time, I started writing, still just a humble budding dreamer with a quill and parchment, embarking on a quest believe it or not, eager to shape, then share my tales and my effort, with all.

Over the years I've been fortunate, enough to write many stories, each one designed to bring a little bit of joy and promote acceptance, tolerance, and change. I'll be the first to admit that not everyone has taken my efforts seriously, and some may even trivialize them. But you know what? 

That's okay. Because every now and then, I receive not polite smiles, but genuine, heartfelt ones that make it all worth it.

I've grown accustomed to these smiles, and I have to say I love receiving them. They fill me with such gratitude- gratitude for the opportunity to share my stories with all of you, and gratitude for the connections and relationships that have formed as a result. And so that's when I knew that my writing was not in vain. And will keep in mind the power of a genuine smile, because in the end it is the simplest things in life that bring us the most contentment and good cheer. 

A smile as you know, is a universal symbol, (a gift if you will), of happiness, friendliness, and can bring joy and comfort, and brighten our moments, or even our day, which is very very nice, and so when I expect a smile-I remind myself, that it's important to also remember, that we must strive to be worthy of such a smile, by engaging in self-reflection, and identifying areas of growth, which can help break down barriers and create a positive first impression. In light of these benefits, it's clear that sharing our smiles is a simple yet powerful way to make a positive impact on those around us.

The worth of a life, human or otherwise, cannot be measured in material terms alone. It is not accurate, as an example, to say that all immigrants who are living in poverty are there solely due to their own fault. (An acquaintence commented that immigrants flooding a country are responsible for their own stage in life, and therefore the reason for their poverty is due entirely to their own fault).
There are many factors that can contribute to an individual’s poverty, including systemic issues such as discrimination, lack of access to education, job opportunities, and economic instability in their country of origin. It is also important to recognize that immigrants often face significant challenges in adjusting to a new country, including language barriers, cultural differences, and difficulty finding employment. While it is true that some immigrants may make mistakes or poor decisions that contribute to their poverty, it is unfair and oversimplified to attribute their poverty entirely to their own actions. But every individual has unique experiences, relationships, and contributions that give meaning to their existence.  Different cultures, religions, and philosophical traditions have various ways in understanding the value of life.

But many of them emphasize the importance of compassion, respect, and dignity for all people. this I can attest to. And depending from which view point you may have, whether from a practical, peaceful, utilitarian, moral, or ethical perspective, your opinion may differ. For instance, if taken from a practical or utilitarian perspective, some might argue that a life is worth the sum of its achievements, but this view might overlook the value of simply being alive and experiencing the world, and from a moral or ethical one, many might believe all lives are equally valuable and deserving of respect. But from a peaceful p.o.v., none of this might matter. 

IMO, depending on how you look at it, the worth of a life is deeply personal, and may depend on whether you know you've been granted access to a higher level of understanding, or feel constantly full, or constantly empty, or how confident you feel about knowing that the creator of life has granted all the secret desires of your heart. Or even the gratitude felt knowing you're loved. Which may influence your desire to live and function well, and to an acceptable level. 

Aphorisms by Winston Moctar.
"Bearing in mind a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor, here are a few of my aphorisms, along with my thoughts:
And so to sum up, I'm just a person still trying to navigate this beautiful yet crazy world, and traverse my own path, and remain grateful for the kindness and understanding of those around me.  But I'm not just about hope, fun and adventure, I also know by way of learning, success is not just about what you achieve, or how you achieve it, but to whose benefit or detriment. In other words, it's about contributing to the greater good, and finding a balance between us, while in the process of designing our future, and the collective responsibility to each other, and the planet."
Winston Moctar. 

“People are more common than we think” 

Winston Moctar. 

“Buying books is folly, if you are facing eviction” 

Winston Moctar. 

“A smile and a pleasant countenance to this poor man, is as deeply valuable as money is to a rich one”
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“Broken sidewalks, yet wars to be fought” 

Winston Moctar. 

“I feel I was given an awe inspiring world to explore. But not a chaperone” 

Winston Moctar. 

“For harmony we must look beyond the comforts of our past, but for the congruence in our humanity”
Winston Moctar. 

“Time hasn't permitted us to know everything there is to know” 

Winston Moctar. 

“Nightly, I go to bed laughing at the day's performance, nostalgic about a period in my life that sincerity seemed more prevalent. Conscious life’s not at fault, but us, being mortals”
Winston Moctar. 

“Live well, that others might” 

Winston Moctar. 

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My apologies for any typos found in this publication. I choose to leave my mistakes as a reminder to myself that I'm not without fault.

Thanks & Best Regards,

Winston Moctar